01-May-2006
On Lesbian Monogamy...
The monogamous and non-monogamous, while seemingly ill-suited, are in almost constant sexual contact with each other. Some women say they are naturally non-monogamous. However, this claim can be used to mask both sexual addiction and an intimacy phobia. Actions speak louder than words.
Naturally non-monogamous or intimacy-phobe?
•Wants the freedom to sleep with other lesbians /Exercises that freedom on your anniversary.
•Believes it’s possible to love more than one lesbian at a time/Loving more than one lesbian at a time keeps her too busy to meet your family, be home for dinner, or remember your name
•Doesn’t want to imitate hetero-patriarchal modes of relating/Unless it relates to her own sense of panic when you decide to see another woman
•Jealousy’s bad and should be conquered/Finds loopholes such as the “anybody but her” loophole, wherein your choice of partner is the problem, not the fact that you slept with another woman
•Wishes she could find someone as emotionally secure and evolved as she is/ Wishes she could find someone as emotionally secure and evolved as she is
