17-Apr-2006
HOW TO MAKE S/M FRIENDS:
1)Send a plate of muffins or dark chocolate truffles to your S/M neighbors (S/M dykes love sugar, and especially dark chocolate, almost as much as they love dungeons)
2)Acknowledge you own inner kinkster (Do you enjoy being blindfolded, held down, bossed around, or your partner to be a little forceful? Do you enjoy blindfolding your partner, holding her down, bossing her around, or being a little forceful?)
3)Take your favorite sentence about S/M: “I think S/M is “gross” or “wrong” or “politically incorrect” and substitute the words: “a fun hobby” or “a way of life” or “a calling.”
4)Friendships with different types of people are good.
5)Ask yourself daily: Does associating with an S/M dyke (or other sexual outlaw) trigger my sense of self-directed homophobia?
